Thurman Buege: Its partially depression, think about your childhood and the things that happened, were you ever hurt by loved ones or bullys? I have alot of anger issues because my dad would beat me when he was drunk and kids would tease me in school for not wearing name brand cloths, maybe talk to a parent or a doctor and get into a program or anti depressant pills, I hope that things work out for you friend :)
Gene Debell: Thank you all for the replies.Fathskie I can't list 5 good or bad because my life is stagnant, nothing is happening. I can say I have a successful career that's all, once I am out of work I become unhappy. I look forward to work, that's all I have in life. There's nothing I enjoy really so I got no recreation, what I used to enjoy before just bores me now. Also I choose not to have a social life, it wasn't forced upon me I DON'T want to be around people.Thank you JNF, I appreciate your reply. Don't remember any childhood issues, don't have good ! memories most probably I forgot them (if any) but I remember all the bad things that happened. When the word childhood comes up I remember the painful memories only. Like being bullied, molested,mocked at or deprived. But how can that effect how I feel now?...Show more
Rosio Pasculli: Fathskie,what does my past have to do with my current state? I don't see how writing down things that made me happy ONCE UPON A TIME will be of any benefit now! Anyway I appreciate your answer.
Penelope Armond: no its not called depression well a little bit of it Depression is when ur seriously ****** im saying u cant control ur anger u have suicidal thoughts constantly u lose interest in family and friends u hate ur life period u dont feel worth **** and more ....u need to get away from it all and start to miss people then ul come back to ur usual self and eat a adequate meal and healthy diet good luck !
Isaias Badgley: you have something missing in your life. Check these fo! llowing parameters:1. Relationship (friends/ family/ spouse)2.! Occupation (job/ work/ activities)3. Recreation (hobbies/ movies/ fun)You might lack one or some of the above aspects. Identify each of those and decide what you miss much.Also, let's do some self-analysis. Let me assist you with this. Now grab a paper and a pen, and write down 5 good things that ever happened to you (or been happening), and also write down 5 bad things that ever happened to you (or been happening). If you're done, please edit your question and state: "Okay I already listed 10" and then I'll come back at you and tell you what the next thing you should do.*)editMmm okay I will finish what I was suppose to finish anyway... When I was asked to write 10 good/bad things I wrote stuff from when I was 10 up to when I was 25, I'm sure you can find something along those years... and mine was nothing really extravagant, it was a simple "accepted to X university" or "my cat died" or "went abroad in holiday" etc etc. And then, from the 10 answer, I was asked to catego! rize into:1. Achievement (school/ work)2. Relationship (friends/family/enemies)3. Material (money/ stuff)So, I was put the "accepted to X university" to Achievement, "my cat died" to Relationship", and "went abroad in holiday" to Material. It turned out that 6 of my answers fell into Relationship category, a few fell into Achievement and even less fell into Material category. Therefore, my teacher then said that my happiness come mostly from relationships, and the least thing I care about was money. It gives me a better look at myself and helped me decide stuff like what kind of job I should take, etc etc.THEORIES aside....I think happiness is a choice to make. People choose to be happy or be miserable... if you feel it's okay with not connecting with people, then (needless to say) it's your choice to be alone. And it's not necessarily a bad thing, it's just that you choose that. Were you happy or not, or was by changing something will make you happier or not, is completely! your call. If you feel that you're unhappy and you ask why you're not ! happy, I think it's because you chose to be unhappy, like how you chose a solitary life. You were too pessimistic, like when I told you to write down 10 things and you immediately shut the idea down without giving any further thought of it (or maybe you really did but still can't find any, I don't know). I think you already know the answer to your own question......Show more
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